I'm in safe hands

Dear friends,

Some of you expressed some reservations about my getting married and leaving everything behind. You worry about what-ifs and what nots, about what may happen should anything bad happen.

Well don't. I have never been so sure about anything before. I love him. We're committed to making this work. We've known each other for over 3 years now, and he's never caused me any grief. On the contrary, he's been everything I could ever ask for in a man and more.

I know I've made mistakes in my past. I was young. I was naive. I wasn't a great judge of character. But you know what? We learn from our past mistakes. And you need to taste the bitter before you can appreciate the sweet. And I am so thankful to have met Will when I'm so much better able to appreciate how amazing he is.

I have found the one who loves me as me, and whom I love as is. I have found the one whom I'll love and cherish for the rest of my life, and I have no doubt that he would do the same.

I'd like to share with you something that he recently wrote to me. I hope that it would quieten your doubts and please please please, be happy for me.

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You're in safe Hands.

I just wanted to let you know a few things as I'm afraid you may not already know.

When you sleep at night sometimes you have nightmares. Often all it takes is a kiss on your forehead and a few strokes of your hair for you to return to your natural, peaceful sleep, as you realise you're in safe hands.

Sometimes, when you're stressed out or scared, you hug me tighter and a bit longer. I watch out for times like this and hug you that bit tighter and for that bit longer too to let you know you're in safe hands.

You need to know that I would do anything for you and have chosen to dedicate my life to looking after you as best I can. I may not be perfect but I promise I would never intentionally hurt you or lie to you or be unfaithful. I will not end up losing my desire or my ambition as the years pass and I don't want you to either. I want to support you to achieve all you can and take pleasure in seeing your happiness as a result of achieving all the amazing things that you are destined for.

You should know that you never have to try to be a certain person around me. It's you as you are that I love and will always love. It's Vysia Yong Vee Ysia who will always be in safe hands, in this life and the next.

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We've just bought a house and we're getting married next year.. we're really looking forward to starting our married life together.

^_^

fiance and i in paris